Many people use to think Twin Flames are just fun and games and eternal love and holywood style kisses in the sunset. Sorry, it’s not. It’s perhaps the most intimidating, frightening….and potentially life-altering experience a soul can have. Why ?
Because out Twin Flames comes to burn our “world”…meaning everything we thought constant, solid in our lives. He/she comes as the other half of our Soul….and trust me, few have the guts or maturity or the responsibility to handle this. Because the TwinFlame WILL trigger the Shadow in us, that’s his/her Karmic role. Why is this ? Because Twin Flame’s are destined to come together in their last incarnation. And for it to be the last, it means no darkness can remain buried, disguised, undercover deep in both their souls.
Our Twin Flame is not the dream lover who will make us totally happy in this incarnation. This is meaningless anyway, a finite happiness, ending with death. The Twin Flame’s role is to trigger and complete the inner Catharsis, to bring all darkness remaining in our souls to the surface, so we can deal with it.
And when the door of our inner Mordor opens…we often run away, terrified of what rushes forth to get us….because our own demons are the ugliest and most powerful ones. Very few can withstand such a merciless onslaught, very few can stand seeing what’s inside our inner Mordor….after our plateau of Gorgoroth there is no Sauron’s tower….but a huge, grinning statue…of ourselves, our Ego…laughing at us.
Yes, the true Twin Flame’s will hurt each other in every possible way…only providing each other with the ultimate challenge. Harsh, unjust words will be uttered, both will do the wrong thing, both will demonstrate their best…and then their worst self.
And then they are faced with their inner darkness as well as the ultimate challenge. To forgive each other. Which unfortunately has one major obstacle….their Egos.
Only the few who can live up to this challenge, defeat their egoism, master their Ego as well as their 3d aspect and it’s selfish needs are worthy of being true Twin Flames….and at some point come to know what Divine Love truly is.
To know the Essence of the Source is no easy task…to BE it, even harder. No one said the path towards the Light is easy…
So many people including myself sometime ago think that their Twin Flame will come to fill their lives with the perfect bliss, make everything right, fix everything. Wrong! Let’s say i’m expecting my dream lover, my perfect mate to come to my house. Would i leave clutter, dirt, a mess everywhere ? Dirty dishes in the sink, stains on the carpet, dog pooh everywhere etc etc ? Or would i prepare a wonderful dinner, make sure everything is as clean as it can possibly be, ok there is chaos in the closet and under the rug…but yes i put great effort for my house to be as tidy and beautiful as possible.
That’s exactly how we should be for our Twin Flame to arrive. Not perfect, not at all….but having cleared most of our inner mess. And sorry, that’s something we have to do ourselves, with the help of our Twin Flame of course…but if we are a mess and we expect him/her to come and clean it for us…it will never happen. Because if we dont have the strength to deal with our inner shadow ourselves…then nobody can do it for us.
“Let yourself be educated by Nature” some truly wise people say. And in Nature, there’s NO love and light….just survival of the strongest. No, it’s not cruel, it’s the right thing.
We are all presented with great challenges in Life. And we are given a choice. To learn our lessons, use the experience gained as a foundation to achieve higher ground…or see the circumstances we face as Divine punishment and spend the rest of our lives in regret, fear, jealousy, hatred, anger…in Shadow.
Or…we can turn towards the Light, and no matter what this world throw at us, doggedly insist on our chosen path. And yes, only the strongest get there, those who may never stop praying to the angels for guidance and help…but also help and guide ourselves….
Those who say the Universe works in mysterious ways are the ones that fail to fathom the ways of the Universe…God lies just a step outside our Egos. But that small step is actually a giant leap to coin an old phrase…and the few brave enough to take it…yes, they are the ones who deserve the promised land/Eden/nirvana/heaven, the end of the journey, Ithaca at long last. We are all Ancient Mariners, travelling the stormy ocean…of our Ego.
Because what we need is to get away from our Egos….and that’s the hardest part. We like to think we can achieve everything ourselves…and never want to admit we need someone else. And the Twin Flame comes to help us break our coccoon…which is freakin intimidating….
It needs 2
Two legs to walk
two hands to create
two eyes to see properly
two ears to hear well