The Psychic Self Defense Series continues with the topic of Attachment Cords between ourselves and others, what are they, why do they exist? Also known as “etheric” or karmic cords most energy healers/intuitives are acutely aware of these cords existing in a myriad of patterns in the human energy field.
Some of them are sourced in a present incarnation while others exist in parallel dimensions, apparently a strong enough emotional cord will permeate through any time and space! Truly our emotional body and the chemistry that is our emotions is one of the most powerful forces in the Universe and one of the gifts we have received from God Source. It is worthwhile to understand the impact and incredible force of power that is our emotions and direct this power wisely. Let us investigate cording….
Etheric attachment cords (energetic ties) commonly form between people, places, timelines and objects, especially when the connections are deeply emotional in nature. These attachments clairvoyantly appear as long thin stringy cords, like great long etheric telephone wires. When these attachments remain between people they can become a conduit for draining energy from the filled to the empty.
Generally this is usually from the person who has made the effort consciously or unconsciously to energize the one who is an energetic vampire. These cords can also send and receive pain, guilt, fear and any number of thoughts and feelings that may not even be yours. Also traumas experienced at various times in one’s life may create cording and fracture your energy to split off and be depleted into the past at the source event. Hence the importance of being present in the eternal “now” moment as one has available all energetic resources when the consciousness is aware in present time.
Much illness and imbalance is caused from depleted energy resources meant for the present moment use, however, the mental body is whirring in obsession over pain from the past experience leaving the body severely depleted.
It is possible many times these cords drain away energy gridwork from your etheric body where the attachment is attached, depleting the area of chi and leading to imbalance or disease. Often these problems can be perceived as a psychic attack when strong emotions flare up. You can muscle test or utilize a pendulum/guidance to be clear whether what you are feeling is in fact an attachment and then take steps to clear and release.
The more attachments you carry, the more conduits for potential problems and loss of energy and gridwork in your field. This will also slow your vibrational increase in one’s efforts to evolve as your light body is trying to build more gridwork to maintain that energy level and vibration. Releasing attachments with forgiveness and acceptance goes hand in hand with spiritual growth.
Attachments that form may be imbalanced or conflicted emotions that we are carrying in our beliefs and/or connections to others. Lacking awareness of our personal boundaries we give away pieces of ourselves energetically due to guilt, conditional love and allow our power to be drained when we conform to another’s expectations of us without allowing acceptance for who we are at the authentic levels.
To fully release cordings one must be able to identify and do an honest inventory of personal emotional behavior and habits. Any conflicting emotions should be separated out. If one is confusing love with support into co-dependence, or taking responsibility for others happiness then you are opening yourself up to invasion by others, the ambiguities of these inter-relationships may prevent you from fully cutting the cords.
Examining one’s true self in comparison to the subtle abuses we are exposed to from external sources, such as our upbringing, religion, societal expectations and other programming is important to gain clarity towards regaining our autonomy.
As a practitioner in energetic healing it has been clear for me that emotional conflicts left unresolved from the past will create sympathetic response in organs, tissues, areas of the body where the trauma may be “projected” and stored energetically within all layers of the body and its field.
That particular event of perceived trauma or suffering will be lodged as a “dark” clump of negative goo or tar like energy, sometimes with multi-cords, layers of attachments to various other life experiences that triggered the same response sourced at the original event of trauma. This compounds the original trauma with even more accumulated debris and to my inner vision appears something like a dark clumpy octopus with tentacles sourced at various timelines and events that trigger the source dark clump of energy to activate the emotional body to experience further pain sensations.
Commonly I experience with clients the perception of a sensation of a deep wound of trauma, let’s say as example, established as a very young child. The trauma timeline at the age of the child gets splintered, a piece of the soul’s spirit fragments off from the pain of the experience and shuts down various energy functions that develop into psycho-spiritual wounds later as an adult.
Deep wounds left unresolved make a pathway from the energy bodies to the physical body and lodge and store the trauma patterns cellularly and the physical body starts to create imbalance unique to the incarnates genetics, ancestral/karmic patterns and other factors. Emotional release, soul retrieval and additional physical bodywork, as in neuromuscular re-structuring, is needed when the wounds are deep and held for a long period of time.
Also I will add in my personal experience I have witnessed an energetic entity, spirit attachments, multiple personalities or just a dark being latched on to this “wound” and manipulating the emotional response to that of its desire rather than to its unaware subject. This is why clearly it is important to break outside the 3D box we have been conditioned as our absolute reality and understand these dynamics and not allow anything uninvited in your energy field.
The simple antidote to this phenomena is maintaining your personal power with the built in god-awareness you have in you, your intuitive faculties, and stating your command. You will need to be responsible for your healing for it to be permanent. Many times your inner child or sub-personalities will be sabotaging you from emotionally repressed and built up fears.
One interesting factor to note is the energetic and physical act of sexuality and its implications on the energy field. The sharing of fluids between two people creates a spiritual bond or cord of energy that cannot be broken energetically, unless made aware of, cleared of conflict and transmuted.
So psychological bonds may be broken once a serious relationship has ended, however the spiritual energetic cord still continues to exist. Amazing! These cords are like electrical wires with energy passing back and forth through them, the power based on the depth and intensity of the connection. It is also important to understand that the thoughts and emotions held or the state of consciousness you are holding when you are having sex is what you are implanting into your partner.
Naturally being in love, holding loving thoughts with the desire to serve your partner is the goal when you are blending at this level with another being. The incredible emotional impact of love as a force shared and blended in a soul union can burn off karma and even contribute an amazing force of transformation for others. Understanding these karmic bonds you create with people every time you have a sexual interaction surely creates more discernment in one’s choices for a partner.
Below, I have included a “Cord Cutting Visualization” as a guideline for your working with releasing and healing these attachment cords.
Cord Cutting Visualization
Find a quiet uninterrupted space to let yourself relax and take three deep cleansing breaths. Imagine yourself standing within a beautiful peaceful place, a meadow, lakeside, or a sea shore. Take a few moments to feel the surrounding nature with your imagination. Ask your higher self to blend with you or be present.
Create a larger flat area in your peaceful place and draw a circle of light around you, the circle delineates your protected space. Call in the higher self of the person you wish to release attachment cords with. Draw another circle of light (not touching your circle) around them as you visualize them standing in front of you.
Explain to them why you are doing this exercise, that you wish to be free of old emotional conditioning and psychic bonds that have built up in the past or from expectations of the future. That you intend to keep unconditional love flowing between you and be released of mutual expectations for the highest good.
Look and see if you notice the cords symbolically and how they manifest themselves. As you sense them, snip them off with giant golden scissors, first from yourself , snipping and removing them and healing and sealing the places with light, then removing them from the other person. Make sure you get snipped all the cords you sense, even looking around the backs of both of you. The snipped cords can be piled aside or left aside.
Where possible, let unconditional love, forgiveness and acceptance as an energy of intention flow everywhere, every cell and pore through you and the other person. Then see the person in their circle of light in a space separated from yours. Gather all the cords and see them in a violet flame bonfire being transmuted and burned away. ( Or you can call in the 7th Ray Violet flame of Transmutation and ask all the cords be transmuted into purity of God perfection).
Take a moment to feel the sensation of the bonfire Violet Flame energizing, warming and healing your body as you watch the fire destroy all cords and simultaneously revitalize you. Wrap yourself in a tube or bubble of light encasing your entire being. Bring your attention back into your room and allow a few moments to readjust and breathe in. Use your grounding technique or envision your feet grounding vines of energy deeply into the center of the earth.